Any man can make himself irresistible to woman by learning to meet her basic marital needs:
1. A woman needs spiritual leader. He should be a man of courage, conviction, commitment, compassion, and character, takes the initiative in cultivating a spiritual atmosphere in their relationship. He should becomes a capable and competent student of God's Word and lives out before all a life founded on the Word of God. He should leads his woman in becoming a woman of God, and he takes the lead in training the children in the things of the Lord. (Psalm 1, Ephesians 5:23-27)
2.A woman needs personal affirmation/appreciation. He should learn to praises her for personal attributes and qualities, extols her virtues as a woman, mother, and homemaker. He openly commends her, in the presence of others, as a marvelous mate, friend, lover, and companion. She feels that to him, no one is more important in this world. (Proverbs 31:28-29, Song of Solomon 4:1-7, 6:4-9, 7:1-9)
3. Her need for personal affection (romance). Always showers her with timely and generous displays of affection, always tell her how much u care for her with a steadfast flow of words, cards, flowers, gifts, and common courtesies. Remember: Affection is the atmosphere in which sexual union is enjoyed and a wonderful marriage developed. (Song of Solomon 6:10, 13, Ephesians 5:28-29,33)
4. A woman need intimate conversation. Always talk with her at the feeling level (heart to heart), listens to her thoughts (i.e. her heart) about the events of her day with sensitivity, interest, and concern. Conversations with her convey a desire to understand her, not to change her. (Song of Solomon 2:8-14, 8:13-14, I Peter 3:7)
5. A woman needs honest and openness.Always looks into her eyes and, in love, tells her how u really feel or think (Ephesians 4:15). Try explaining your plans and actions clearly and completely. (Proverbs 15:22-23)
